It might do a little good for us to relax the grip slightly as well.
This ^^^^
my main complaint was that the rules 'as written' were sort of vague, yet arnox tried a 'heavy hand' approach in some cases, and completely let other cases slide.
we need less micromanaging and more benign neglect
remember the cp thing? if you want to be a hardass, go hard on that sort of thing, and lay off some of the bannings for 'spam' and stupid shit.
I never thought arnox was unlikeable per se, matter of fact I used to play AD&D and I suspect arnox did too, and when I joined I was looking forward to maybe discussing it with him
but then mormonism reared its ugly, dragon-dildo shaped head, and now here we are......