A friend of mine wants to fly me out to some fancy place

[equanimity]

In the summertime, as like a vacation.  He's started making the plans already but I don't think I want to say no.  This all came after I contacted him when I was feeling suicidal and he got really worried.  He doesn't even live in the US anymore, as he moved to Dubai to teach at a university there.  And he's really busy so the only time I get to see him is in the summers when he comes back.

Feel guilty about this and I'm not sure what to I should do, or how I should tell him when I have made me decision.  What do you think?

[WS]

Girl if a nigga wants to trick off on you you always take it.

[mizled]

You go girl!

[RisiR]

I reccomend the Côte d'Azur. It's very nice and fancy there.

Don't throw up between his legs when you deepthroat his cock, though. The french cuisine should only be enjoy in one direction.

[The Shark™]

Be honest with him when you do make a decision.

As long as he's a true friend with no agenda outside of caring for you like you're implying here, then he should understand your decision and support you wholly whether he agrees with you or not.

[Infinityshock]

Bring condoms and ky because if you think hes flying you half way around the world for no other reason than to be altruistic youre kidding yourself.  And if you don't give it up voluntarily you're going to give it up involuntarily

[MoaningLisa]

I would say go for it, but just expect his advances. I have a few girls who I'm really good platonic friends with, but I know if I was in the position to fly someone somewhere and shack up in a hotel for a while, I'd probably take someone I'd want to fuck...

[equanimity]

Ah... there was some sexual tension in the past, and with that in mind sex is implicit here.  I don't mind that, and it's not the issue.

He's not rich, I don't think.  What do math professors even make in Dubai?  I know the people there are generally rich, but that doesn't mean the university pays well.  And I've never been comfortable even with money lending, unless it's family.  No one has ever spent this much money on me before.  Maybe I should just ask him if we can hang out here.

[RisiR]

He's not rich, I don't think.  What do math professors even make in Dubai?

 
Oh man... I don't even. 

[equanimity]

He hasn't been one for long, and the reason he's working and living there is because he couldn't find a job here in the US.

[mashleshmash]

Yes, find a man who will love you in mathematical expressions.

[Juicebox]

Most people who live in dubai don't make shit

The burj al arab costs more to stay in per night than each construction worker makes in a year.

[RisiR]

Yea, those construction workers aren't American math professors, though.

[mashleshmash]

Oh I thought it was a foreign man.  This news makes the thread less exciting.

[Infinityshock]

Ah... there was some sexual tension in the past, and with that in mind sex is implicit here.  I don't mind that, and it's not the issue.

He's not rich, I don't think.  What do math professors even make in Dubai?  I know the people there are generally rich, but that doesn't mean the university pays well.  And I've never been comfortable even with money lending, unless it's family.  No one has ever spent this much money on me before.  Maybe I should just ask him if we can hang out here.

If you're hot enough ill spend money on you