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Carnality => Sex & Affection => Topic started by: theKit on October 01, 2014, 10:38:43 pm

Title: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: theKit on October 01, 2014, 10:38:43 pm
Since it is acceptable for gay men to have intimate feelings and relations with each other, is it still possible for them to have bromances? I should probably define bromance here so we're all on the same page: Bromance - Those relationships you often see between men who serve together in a military capacity, the deep connection gang members are constantly talking about, that sibling like trust, respect and adoration women cannot experience or understand.

Discuss.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: theKit on October 01, 2014, 10:41:43 pm
I have two friends I've grown up with, I know without a shadow of a doubt I would kill if someone tried to fuck with them or if they asked me to. I can honestly say I love them in a non sexual way. Strange thing now that I think about it... I would stab a motherfucker in the eye for them but I don't think I could bring myself to be gay for them.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 01, 2014, 10:46:20 pm
The term 'bromance' is fucking retarded and full on flamingly fagtastic. Sounds like something a nigger faggot thought up to define the relationship between himself and the guy ass fucking him

There is nothing romantic whatsoever in the definition of the bonds between military members. I strongly suggest not using the term towards any military members to whom youd prefer not to show you why its not a good idea
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: theKit on October 01, 2014, 10:53:12 pm
Uh... I was military and we used the therm bromance all the time so.... Yeah. Let's not argue terms here, you understand what relationship I'm trying to convey via the term so answer my question - Can gay men hold this type of relationship?
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 01, 2014, 11:01:41 pm
Uh... I was military and we used the therm bromance all the time so.... Yeah. Let's not argue terms here, you understand what relationship I'm trying to convey via the term so answer my question - Can gay men hold this type of relationship?

What military...the girl scouts? I was in the military and if anyone used such a fag term theyd quickly discover it was a bad idea. Youre the one that used it as an example...and a bad example at that...accept the consequences

I dont know what a 'b romance' is supposed to be but it sounds gay.

Men cant have a non-sexual relationship with whatever sex they consider sexually preferably.  Meaning...a fag cant be in a male-male relationship without sex becoming an issue.  Its hard-wired instinctively and the only way to avoid it is with hormone treatments.

Anyone that uses the term bromance is a fag
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: equanimity on October 01, 2014, 11:05:06 pm
Hormone treatments can change a person's sexuality?  I've never in my life heard that.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 01, 2014, 11:22:35 pm
Hormone treatments can change a person's sexuality?  I've never in my life heard that.

Not sexuality. Sex drive
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Max Headroom on October 01, 2014, 11:23:23 pm
Not sexually, and bromance sounds fucking gay. I looked up my friend who moved in 1st grade on facebook and met up with him 2 years ago, ever since we've gotten high together, got arrested together, had so many fights that only really good friends can have, we have some sort of telepathic bond.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Max Headroom on October 01, 2014, 11:27:13 pm
also both of us are straight. that kinda defeats the purpose of the question, I misread the thread title.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: theKit on October 02, 2014, 12:56:00 am
No one gives a shit whether you like the term bromance or not, how about you throw out another term that has the equivalent meaning instead of just bitching?

Can women have the same types of friendships with other women to the same degree as what would be defined as a bromance?   
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 02, 2014, 01:15:04 am
No one gives a shit whether you like the term bromance or not, how about you throw out another term that has the equivalent meaning instead of just bitching?

Can women have the same types of friendships with other women to the same degree as what would be defined as a bromance?

no one gives a shit about you giving a shit. 

no. bromance isnt a word and after googling the term its even more obvious its a fag word.  the term was coined by a fag.  anyone that uses it is a fag.  there has been a term used for as long as ive been alive...male bonding. there are many other more appropriate terms to use and there is no use of the term that is appropriate for anything other than a faggot-intimacy fuck fest

women can have woman-woman friendships the same as men can have man-man friendships.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: theKit on October 02, 2014, 01:57:52 am
I think it's fairly obvious someone here has never had a proper bromance. Possibly a woman...

Male Bonding does NOT come close to describing a bromance. You male bond with your faggot neighbor Bob on the weekend. You male bond with your epileptic aspie son. You have a bromance with your bros
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 02, 2014, 02:02:00 am
I think it's fairly obvious someone here has never had a proper bromance. Possibly a woman...

Male Bonding does NOT come close to describing a bromance. You male bond with your faggot neighbor Bob on the weekend. You male bond with your epileptic aspie son. You have a bromance with your bros

no.  a bromance is something one male does to another male with his dick.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Ninja on October 02, 2014, 02:16:14 am
Members of the military conduct homosexual activities! Look at Rome. Fuck for morale! Bromances...  That's some bullshit MTV term isn't it? You stupid Jew.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Ninja on October 02, 2014, 02:18:37 am
also both of us are straight. that kinda defeats the purpose of the question, I misread the thread title.

YOU FUCKING FAGGOT!  lol.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 02, 2014, 02:33:04 am
That's some bullshit MTV term isn't it? You stupid Jew.

it was a term coined by a faggot.  its being promoted by other faggots in an effort to indoctrinate more straight males into being faggots so the original faggots have more faggots to practice their faggotry with.

same situation as with those skin-tight jeans for men and the whole 'metrosexual' fad.  the faggots are promoting the rampant faggotry and the non-fags are too weak minded to realize this so they go around behaving like a fag so the faggots are happy.

anyone that uses the term bromance is either a faggot trying to create new faggots out of non-faggots, or a recently faggified faggot who may or may not be aware that faggots have brainwashed him into faggotry

fucking fags
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Ninja on October 02, 2014, 02:34:31 am
That's some bullshit MTV term isn't it? You stupid Jew.

it was a term coined by a faggot.  its being promoted by other faggots in an effort to indoctrinate more straight males into being faggots so the original faggots have more faggots to practice their faggotry with.

same situation as with those skin-tight jeans for men and the whole 'metrosexual' fad.  the faggots are promoting the rampant faggotry and the non-fags are too weak minded to realize this so they go around behaving like a fag so the faggots are happy.

anyone that uses the term bromance is either a faggot trying to create new faggots out of non-faggots, or a recently faggified faggot who may or may not be aware that faggots have brainwashed him into faggotry

fucking fags

I agree with you 100,000% in a non-homosexual way.

But, please expound more on the Jew element.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Infinityshock on October 02, 2014, 02:47:02 am
That's some bullshit MTV term isn't it? You stupid Jew.

it was a term coined by a faggot.  its being promoted by other faggots in an effort to indoctrinate more straight males into being faggots so the original faggots have more faggots to practice their faggotry with.

same situation as with those skin-tight jeans for men and the whole 'metrosexual' fad.  the faggots are promoting the rampant faggotry and the non-fags are too weak minded to realize this so they go around behaving like a fag so the faggots are happy.

anyone that uses the term bromance is either a faggot trying to create new faggots out of non-faggots, or a recently faggified faggot who may or may not be aware that faggots have brainwashed him into faggotry

fucking fags

I agree with you 100,000% in a non-homosexual way.

But, please expound more on the Jew element.

jews run hollywood, the overall entertainment industry, advertising, and the media.  jews are proven sexual deviants of the highest order.  theyre not the brightest bulbs in the tool shed but theyre devious so they know enough to use their influence in the propaganda industry to peddle their sexual perversions.  there are entirely too many stupids that are susceptible to being told what to do and how to do it, which encourages the jews to behave in the entitled way they do.

and they wonder why no one likes them
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Rook on October 16, 2014, 08:17:55 am
I almost find this incredibly ignorant that someone actually asked this. Gay people have friends too that they aren't sexually involved with so.. naturally.. I assume there are gay guys out there that probably hit the gym or bar together, but don't do the deed.. There's no intelligent evidence or thought process I can conspire to conceive otherwise.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Slave of the Beast on October 16, 2014, 08:45:17 am
In the intense emotional situations the OP describes I think it would be less likely; het' men obviously have no sexual attraction to each other, from which a physical relation can evolve from an emotional one. That of course does not preclude the possibility.

Since it is acceptable for gay men to have intimate feelings and relations with each other, is it still possible for them to have bromances? I should probably define bromance here so we're all on the same page: Bromance - Those relationships you often see between men who serve together in a military capacity, the deep connection gang members are constantly talking about, that sibling like trust, respect and adoration women cannot experience or understand.

Discuss.

I almost find this incredibly ignorant that someone actually asked this. Gay people have friends too that they aren't sexually involved with so.. naturally.. I assume there are gay guys out there that probably hit the gym or bar together, but don't do the deed.. There's no intelligent evidence or thought process I can conspire to conceive otherwise.

Oh, the breathless faux outrage of it all!

The OP is talking about a deep fraternal bond as theoretically shared by some heterosexual men, in potentially life-or-death occupations or roles. The gay people I know wouldn't be too fucking impressed that your counter-example of gays having a 'deep' bond that just involves doing some cardio' at the gym then going for cocktails afterwards.

It's one of the most insulting comments in this thread.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Rook on October 16, 2014, 10:31:14 am


Oh, the breathless faux outrage of it all!

The OP is talking about a deep fraternal bond as theoretically shared by some heterosexual men, in potentially life-or-death occupations or roles. The gay people I know wouldn't be too fucking impressed that your counter-example of gays having a 'deep' bond that just involves doing some cardio' at the gym then going for cocktails afterwards.

It's one of the most insulting comments in this thread.

 You consider relating a deep fraternal bond to the term "Bromance" and criticize me? Really now? I don't think those two are one and the same..

 Loyalty to your fellow man in the sense that you describe reminds me of what brothers in arms and war buddies might have had. I would hardly call that a Bromance.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Slave of the Beast on October 16, 2014, 11:00:54 am

Uh... I was military and we used the therm bromance all the time so.... Yeah. Let's not argue terms here, you understand what relationship I'm trying to convey via the term so answer my question - Can gay men hold this type of relationship?



Oh, the breathless faux outrage of it all!

The OP is talking about a deep fraternal bond as theoretically shared by some heterosexual men, in potentially life-or-death occupations or roles. The gay people I know wouldn't be too fucking impressed that your counter-example of gays having a 'deep' bond that just involves doing some cardio' at the gym then going for cocktails afterwards.

It's one of the most insulting comments in this thread.

 You consider relating a deep fraternal bond to the term "Bromance" and criticize me? Really now? I don't think those two are one and the same..

 Loyalty to your fellow man in the sense that you describe reminds me of what brothers in arms and war buddies might have had. I would hardly call that a Bromance.

What you call it is irrelevant. The OP has already been quite clear if defining the term within the context of this thread.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Rook on October 16, 2014, 11:11:29 am

Uh... I was military and we used the therm bromance all the time so.... Yeah. Let's not argue terms here, you understand what relationship I'm trying to convey via the term so answer my question - Can gay men hold this type of relationship?



Oh, the breathless faux outrage of it all!

The OP is talking about a deep fraternal bond as theoretically shared by some heterosexual men, in potentially life-or-death occupations or roles. The gay people I know wouldn't be too fucking impressed that your counter-example of gays having a 'deep' bond that just involves doing some cardio' at the gym then going for cocktails afterwards.

It's one of the most insulting comments in this thread.

 You consider relating a deep fraternal bond to the term "Bromance" and criticize me? Really now? I don't think those two are one and the same..

 Loyalty to your fellow man in the sense that you describe reminds me of what brothers in arms and war buddies might have had. I would hardly call that a Bromance.

What you call it is irrelevant. The OP has already been quite clear if defining the term within the context of this thread.

 Ah, you got me there.. Suppose it's a matter of opinion really. Nonetheless, I still can't forsee any real possibility that homosexuals couldnt share the same qualities to meet the requirements of the definition. I mean sure, if you want to assume the basis of the male homosexual community on it's stereotype (often portrayed as men who exhibit stereotype femenistic qualities).. Then I would have difficulty seeing them exhibit what has been definied as a "Bromance". However, some gay dudes appear and partake in all similar stereotypical activities of straight men, besides the fact they either give or take a dude in the ass. Just want to point out, that I'm not assuming you are basing your opinion on what I just said.. It's just the only way I can try and wrap my head around the conversation and try to make sense..

 Perhaps, the better question would be why couldnt homosexuals exhibits the qualities of a Bromance?

 Edit : And honestly, I'm a little uncomfortable with how many times I've had to type...... Bromance, today. I feel about as dirty as  would telling someone YOLO.... gah, I think a part of me just died.
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: theKit on October 16, 2014, 06:01:18 pm

Uh... I was military and we used the therm bromance all the time so.... Yeah. Let's not argue terms here, you understand what relationship I'm trying to convey via the term so answer my question - Can gay men hold this type of relationship?



Oh, the breathless faux outrage of it all!

The OP is talking about a deep fraternal bond as theoretically shared by some heterosexual men, in potentially life-or-death occupations or roles. The gay people I know wouldn't be too fucking impressed that your counter-example of gays having a 'deep' bond that just involves doing some cardio' at the gym then going for cocktails afterwards.

It's one of the most insulting comments in this thread.

 You consider relating a deep fraternal bond to the term "Bromance" and criticize me? Really now? I don't think those two are one and the same..

 Loyalty to your fellow man in the sense that you describe reminds me of what brothers in arms and war buddies might have had. I would hardly call that a Bromance.

What you call it is irrelevant. The OP has already been quite clear if defining the term within the context of this thread.

 Ah, you got me there.. Suppose it's a matter of opinion really. Nonetheless, I still can't forsee any real possibility that homosexuals couldnt share the same qualities to meet the requirements of the definition. I mean sure, if you want to assume the basis of the male homosexual community on it's stereotype (often portrayed as men who exhibit stereotype femenistic qualities).. Then I would have difficulty seeing them exhibit what has been definied as a "Bromance". However, some gay dudes appear and partake in all similar stereotypical activities of straight men, besides the fact they either give or take a dude in the ass. Just want to point out, that I'm not assuming you are basing your opinion on what I just said.. It's just the only way I can try and wrap my head around the conversation and try to make sense..

 Perhaps, the better question would be why couldnt homosexuals exhibits the qualities of a Bromance?

 Edit : And honestly, I'm a little uncomfortable with how many times I've had to type...... Bromance, today. I feel about as dirty as  would telling someone YOLO.... gah, I think a part of me just died.

You misunderstand. Gay sterotypes aside, men who 'love' each other on that level - don't you think if the sexual boundaries weren't there (as they aren't with gay men) that such a friendship would naturally progress into a romantic/physical one? Hence the question - Is it possible to bro love without love loving between the bros?

But I've thought about it and I actually think it is possible but only AFTER they've fucked the shit out of eachother's cornholes and decide to date other people and out of respect for their new perspective partners - refrain from occasional butt fucking of eachother (until they break up or have a little upset of course)
Title: Re: Do Gays Have Bromances?
Post by: Rook on October 17, 2014, 05:38:05 am

 So I'm just going to throw this out there because it seems obvious now.. don't know why I didnt think of it before.

 Here's the breakdown.. There is 2 Brothers... one is gay... I think that situation counts, as being family shouldn't disqualify the notion of a Bromance.

Edit: Took out all the quotes.. just unnecessary to have them filling up space.