So the concepts of male/white privileges have no basis in reality? What makes them airy bullshit, specifically?
I'm not calling you wrong, just hoping you move beyond the vague generalities. You're given free space here to share your thoughts. So do it imo.
They have a limited basis in reality. The whole notion of white privilege seems to completely ignore the fact that there are plenty of places where white people are poor and stuck in a broken system the same as their black and hispanic and whatever else fellows. My problem with the concept is that it describes the problem, says that the individual can't just make up for it by not discriminating, but without prescribing a solution. It is nothing more than a divide and conquer tactic that plays on the concept of white guilt. Again no solution is prescribed meaning nothing that big bad white man can do will will take away his privilege. While I agree that shit is and has been fucked. I am not responsible for the actions of my fathers. I don't shit on german people because of hitler, nor do I shit on russians because of stalin, etc. By the white guilt logic germans should be indebted to the jews.
The concept and people who tout it seem to forget that not everyone lives in a nice suburban villages. That poverty affects all races and genders. You don't walk into an engineering firm and say "I'm a man, where is my job?" Rather like everyone else you start from the bottom and work up, unless you are one of the few who was born with connections. The funny thing about connections is they don't know racial boundaries either. Further everyone is born with advantages and disadvantages. Should I feel white guilt because snoop dogg is highly successful because of the culture created by the media. Same with 2 chainz and Wacka Flocka, I am so sorry that they have to suffer racial stereotypes of black men solely for profit and personal gain.
And lets not forget that their are two sides to every coin: Is it my male privilege that I have to take out the garbage out at work and that females will rarely do that task? I am not big nor strong, but that is the task that is required of me and so I do it. Going back to the divide and conquer everyone is in the same boat, upper class through poor, we are just pawns to the elite. The more self hate they can generate the more efficient it seems they can accomplish their goals. It is not and never a civil rights issue. People love talking about fergusson these days, but I've never once heard someone in real life mention the several incidents of new mexico police raping individuals (by definition). I don't blame them for not knowing, but the media has an agenda, and stories like those don't fit so well - even though they should draw equal outrage.
I treat everyone with the same amount of respect and fuck anyone who says that isn't enough because that is all we have to do as humans to create a positive change.