Got Dumped, Now What?

[Hewfil1]

SO I was dating this girl, we'll call her "A", for three months, and just yesterday she dumped me. And a side note, I truly love this girl, or at least, what my definition of love is, I truthfully DID want to spend the rest of my pathetic life with her, as stupid as that sounds. Now, back to my story. So this girl, "A", finds out from someone I'd been talking to a girl on the side and she tells me that a relationship is based off trust, and I always rant about trust because she used to self-harm, so I don't trust her with sharp objects. NOW, sure, her leaving me and being pissed about the whole trust thing is justified, except for one point, this girl I was, "talking to on the side", whom we'll call "S", was a situation that went down before I'd even started dating, hell, before I even met "A". So, "S" tells her about how I've been wanting to drink and get high with her, and have sex. My girl, "A" gets pissed, and as I said would be rightfully so, had this taken place whilst we were dating, but it in fact did not. I'm thinking the girl, "S", just told her this shit from the past because she was mad that I didn't date her instead of dating this girl, "A". "A" is truly sexy as fuck, a redhead, a CURVY redhead, cute as hell, fucking amazing personality, good taste in music, and puts up with my bullshit, i.e. my ranting and just being an idiot at times. Now, "S", attractive, yes, smart, hell-no, personality like a fucking rock, totally bipolar bitch, but good fuck nonetheless, not to mention, the bonus of free booze and weed. Now "A", I hadn't slept with her, but I really wanted to. Now that it's all over with, I know for a fact I wont be getting "A" back, nor will I be getting with "S". Now what, should I just do like I normally do, find a shy girl, talk her into shit, then when I find another girl I actually want to date, cut off shit with that chick and leave to go to her? Opinions? I know I'm going to get a lot of bullshit, but whatever, I don't fucking care, I'm bored at school, and want to hear people's thoughts.

[Obbe]

You should stop worrying about girls and work on yourself for 3 months.  Then meet a girl and fuck.

[Sirfearoth]

You should stop worrying about girls and work on yourself for 3 months.  Then meet a girl and fuck.

[baby raper]

Do 150 pushups a day five days a week for a month and see what comes your way. Youll be surprised.

[baby raper]

Oh ya beware lest your heart betray you.

[Hewfil1]

Do 150 pushups a day five days a week for a month and see what comes your way. Youll be surprised.

I've actually been working out a lot, but my recent bout with strep throat, followed by the allergic reaction to the amoxicillin I was given to cure it, I've been unable to be active for about three weeks.

[starvingniglet]

Oh ya beware lest your heart betray you.

you are really slipping

if any thread needed your special signature touch, this one was it

you know of what I refer

[komokazi]

Owned, you should kill yourself.

[Hewfil1]

Owned, you should kill yourself.

Pfft, me..? I HATE those who contemplate suicide. It's a permanent solution to what is but a temporary problem.

[NAAFI]

We'll bang. Okay?

[Hewfil1]

We'll bang. Okay?

Lel, deal. This is like Tinder, but worse. XD

[Zanick]

Owned, you should kill yourself.

Pfft, me..? I HATE those who contemplate suicide. It's a permanent solution to what is but a temporary problem.

Being thrust unwillingly into an absurd reality is not a temporary problem, but suicide is the only solution.

I think you should lament your shortcomings and produce them as art, so get some decent drugs to take while you mull over your relationships.

[Hewfil1]

Owned, you should kill yourself.

Pfft, me..? I HATE those who contemplate suicide. It's a permanent solution to what is but a temporary problem.

Being thrust unwillingly into an absurd reality is not a temporary problem, but suicide is the only solution.

I think you should lament your shortcomings and produce them as art, so get some decent drugs to take while you mull over your relationships.

Hey Z, missed ya. It's your contributions like this that allow me to realize not everyone is here to be a troll. And yeah, I'm actually into writing poems, short stories, stories, lyrics, etc., but being that I had a girl as an outlet, as in she would comfort me, my maddness was no longer pent up, and my creativity dulled.

[1337]

Love is a chemical reaction in your brain, man. You get dependent on it, then when it is gone, you go through withdrawals just like a junkie addicted to heroin. Time will make you overcome anything. Specifically, as your brain chemistry goes back to normal, you'll get over the ho. What it boils down to is don't compromise your integrity for a psycho bitch with whom you just broke up.

[kroz]

^^^this and thatty