I always get a kick out of how you try to psychoanalyze me over the internet but all you've got is like 50s era shitty pop-psych to go off of. "laws of nature" lol.
But it's not "50's era psych"....instead simple common sense and the way of the world. Its no surprise over the last few decades with the breakdown of families in a traditional sense why there is more problems in this world, as well as multitudes of emotionally and socially defunct kids as a product of that familial dysfunction. Then you add the "new age" psychiatry of not hitting kids, not instilling discipline, and not having male role models (like yourself)....there is a whole generation of malcontents and weirdos out there. And that isn't exclusive just to the ghettos, but just as prevalent in suburbia too.
Just look at yourself Lanny, there is very little about you that is "normal" on the male end of the spectrum....not in any traditional sense. Your entire existence revolves around a computer, sitting on your ass staring at a screen and banging on a keyboard. We never hear you talk about sports. Or trying to score with women. Or partying. Or getting into fights. Or just going out and raising hell sometimes. You are about as passive and effeminate as could be without being a girl. Hell, you even pretended to be a girl as some source of recreation(?) for a couple of years.....again all the time sitting stagnant behind a computer like a bitch.
You couldn't be much more "un-manly" unless you were playing dressup like Zek. And a lot of that DOES have to do with the environment you were raised in and the lack of capable/traditional MEN that were never in your life.