The curse of specguru strikes again...
I didn't read much past the first page, but many called it a long time ago. Arnox, despite his best efforts, is getting burnt out already because he lets the forum drama get to him. We told you it's impossible to please everybody, and as you stated in the OP: because some people here are simply unreasonable.
I didn't read the new rules, but my advice boils down to 3 points: ban people who break the rules, ban the unreasonable people who bitch and cause trouble over said bannings, and finally, stop giving a shit. That's all.