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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #30 on: October 10, 2014, 07:24:50 pm »
How come everyone seems to be in the know as far as this Zek trilogy/life time special? I don't recall any threads referencing trannies except those questioning WAN's gender/sexuality/multiple personality disorder.

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #31 on: October 10, 2014, 07:37:31 pm »
How come everyone seems to be in the know as far as this Zek trilogy/life time special? I don't recall any threads referencing trannies except those questioning WAN's gender/sexuality/multiple personality disorder.
yeah, I saw that and backtracked so people know histories that the rest of us don't obviously
Sometimes...you can cry until there's nothing wet in you. You can scream and curse to where your throat rebels and ruptures. You can pray, all you want, to whatever god you think will listen. And, still it makes no difference. It goes on, with no sign as to when it might release you. And you know that if it ever did relent...it would not be because it cared.

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #32 on: October 20, 2014, 02:53:27 am »
So... an update.

On Monday my brother started "IOP" (intensive outpatient) treatment for the drug and alcohol addictions.  Because he's still dealing with his legal stuff following his (second) DUI, this information is all shared with the courts.  And if he gets kicked out of this program, he's heading to jail to serve a maximum of 45 days.

It meets 4 days every week, with each session being 2 and half hours of group therapy.  Random weekly UAs and BAs.  Also has to find an AA group to join.  The first day I dropped him off, and when it ended he was no where in sight.  This worried me greatly... I thought he'd killed himself.  Tends to happen in my family.  Called people frantically, searched around.  His phone was off when I tried calling him.  Eventually I got a call from a pizza place, and it was him calling.  Said his phone died.

No idea why he wasn't there when his thing ended, or why he walked to a pizza place to call me.  But he was obviously drunk and seemed a little messed up on something else.

The second day they met, he didn't go.  Called his counselor and gave anxiety excuse.  The third day he went and it seemed to go well.  Fourth day he didn't go... I think he was scared of the UA.

*sigh*

It has not been good.  In the meantime, I've been trying to do my stuff and have been failing pretty terribly.  Was really shaken that night he disappeared.  Other people have disappeared like that, and they never came back.


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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #33 on: October 20, 2014, 12:34:33 pm »
You and him should fuck.
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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #34 on: October 20, 2014, 01:19:56 pm »
You and him should fuck.
Obbe my man. :tup:
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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #35 on: October 20, 2014, 01:22:45 pm »
Gross no. Also neither of you were invited to my thread. How did you get in?  :suspect:


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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #36 on: October 20, 2014, 02:03:11 pm »
Sucks now you are a woman you can't just kick his ass in the spirit of brotherly love.
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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #37 on: October 20, 2014, 02:30:48 pm »
Marchman-act his ass

Then you'll have the whole place to yourself until the lack of bills being paid brings out the eviction police

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #38 on: October 20, 2014, 03:05:45 pm »
He's angry always.  Punches holes in the walls, breaks shit and threatens me with violence.

This worried me greatly... I thought he'd killed himself.  Tends to happen in my family.

Do not be afraid. This site is covered with spiders, patiently waiting for their webs to tingle with the news of others' misery. When we feel the vibrations caused by someone's sobbing we'll soon came crawling faster than you can blink, out of every dark corner and recess. Before you can even think to move your body will be covered by us. And you'll feel much better once we've entombed you in a silken cocoon of love and comfort and have made nests in your ears so that we can whisper sweet things to you, and on your eyes so that we can gently brush away your tears with a hundred nimble and rapidly moving legs. Eyes that will be permanently opened with strong threads of silk. You'll never blink again and so will always be able to see that we're with you, on you, in you, and no one can remove our caring embrace no matter how hard they try.

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #39 on: October 20, 2014, 03:07:11 pm »
What the fuck?


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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #40 on: October 20, 2014, 03:12:20 pm »
When we feel the vibrations caused by someone's sobbing

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #41 on: October 20, 2014, 03:13:21 pm »
He's angry always.  Punches holes in the walls, breaks shit and threatens me with violence.

This worried me greatly... I thought he'd killed himself.  Tends to happen in my family.

Do not be afraid. This site is covered with spiders, patiently waiting for their webs to tingle with the news of others' misery. When we feel the vibrations caused by someone's sobbing we'll soon came crawling faster than you can blink, out of every dark corner and recess. Before you can even think to move your body will be covered by us. And you'll feel much better once we've entombed you in a silken cocoon of love and comfort and have made nests in your ears so that we can whisper sweet things to you, and on your eyes so that we can gently brush away your tears with a hundred nimble and rapidly moving legs. Eyes that will be permanently opened with strong threads of silk. You'll never blink again and so will always be able to see that we're with you, on you, in you, and no one can remove our caring embrace no matter how hard they try.
Very nice. Did you write fairytales for children in the 18th and 19th century?

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #42 on: October 20, 2014, 03:52:37 pm »
I don't know what you're all using to make cocoons out of but what I use is gooey and salty and your mums favorite flavor

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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #43 on: November 10, 2014, 07:02:46 am »
Short update, if anyone's interested.  He stopped going to his intensive outpatient thing and stopped talking to his counselor.  Thinks he has a warrant out now.  Lost his job tonight, finally :(

He's belligerent and shit, and I'm at the point where I can't keep any money in my purse 'cause he'll go through it.  Pretty annoying.  I might end up moving out, which sucks because everything else about living here is awesome.


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Re: How to live with a drug addict?
« Reply #44 on: November 10, 2014, 07:07:06 am »
Short update, if anyone's interested.  He stopped going to his intensive outpatient thing and stopped talking to his counselor.  Thinks he has a warrant out now.  Lost his job tonight, finally :(

He's belligerent and shit, and I'm at the point where I can't keep any money in my purse 'cause he'll go through it.  Pretty annoying.  I might end up moving out, which sucks because everything else about living here is awesome.

He's a shit cunt. Plain and simple, you should've told your mom and dad about him ages ago, but i get that you're a decent person. He's going to go to jail now it seems, good.