the same shit goes on at our school, I've taken the stance that if I cover my ass I'll be okay...
usually in the emails they say at least somewhat specifically what happened.
"in a 4th floor common room, a student made unsolicited advances on a female student"
"a suspicious person was seen in the south parking lot at 3 AM. student contacted police using the call box, police found suspicious person to be a student" (some girl saw some dude in the parking lot in the middle of the night, got scared and called campus police, they found out the dude was just a dude doing his thing)
usually shit like that about twice a week. there was ONE legit rape last semester in the whole town...I do agree the language always back-handedly implies men are the bad guys, and at the same time women have lost the accountability for their actions at parties and such.
I could get mad about it, but I'd just get framed as an asshole. I'll just keep dating one girl and not fuck around...pretty much this
I try to stay away from drunken whores as a general strategy.
what also is backasswards is the punishment for falsely accusing rape is nowhere near the punishment of rape. some people treat it like its a fucking game.