All of us are actually the universe itself. A person is no more than a wave on the surface of the ocean. It might look like an individual wave, but when that wave breaks on the shore and rolls back into the sea we realize that it was never separate from the ocean. And the whole entire ocean is "waving". You are not separate from the universe, all of us are just instances of the universe becoming self conscious before we roll back into unconsciousness. That is what God is to me. The unity of everything, the unity of the inside with the outside, the unity of up with down, of self and other.