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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #105 on: October 16, 2014, 10:23:26 pm »

Will the real Zek step forward, please? This has gone on long enough.

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #106 on: October 16, 2014, 10:30:09 pm »
Why should you care when this pisses people off and creates widepsread animosity? Well, we can come back to that question in a year or so' time and you can tell us how bumpy your ride as site admin has been. And no, don't get your pantyhose mangled like you did with Risir, that is not a veiled threat it is just my suggestion.

What is it that you're hoping to get out of this, Slave?  I could have made an unfair insinuation about you and that understandably rubbed you the wrong way, but how does that equate to me slowly turning the website1 into a state of chaos? 2

1) This big-ass thread has for the most part been created in your honour by amalgamating other user's complaint threads. The site is peppered with God knows how many posts griping about you. Yet somehow you conclude I'm commenting on myself, despite me blatantly talking in the plural, i.e. "pisses people off". As it so clearly does. This shouldn't be difficult to understand.

To me it looks as though the animosity is coming from a very vocal minority, and in my own biased opinion they don't seem to even know what they are so worked up about.  So I say let's talk this stuff out, one poster at a time if we must.  Will you please try to work with me here, instead of working to create even more drama?

2) Compare"'widepsread animosity" with "state of chaos", then find a dictionary and look up the word hyperbole.

Thank you, Slave.  I think I will do that.

What is it that you're hoping to get out of this, Slave?  I could have made an unfair insinuation about you and that understandably rubbed you the wrong way, but how does that equate to me slowly bringing the website into a state of chaos?

Why the fuck are you directing this question ONLY to Slave, when its far and away a STRONG MAJORITY of this userbase that finds your existence repulsive and your modship an absolute farce. Sure, in your demented mind its YOUR way of trying to "minimize" how many people despise you and your pathetic life by directing that question to only ONE person....but it is very much a group/collective mindset shared by many. Keep living in your bizzarro world, freakboy....keep hiding from the realities of life as best you can.

Everyone is invited to chat with me, and air their grievances.  I didn't mean to suggest that it was only Slave.
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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #107 on: October 16, 2014, 10:36:58 pm »
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Apparently ogge is waiting for my response to this.

ogge?   I'm Obbe.

I'm also waiting for you to answer questions I've asked you directly:

Why did you decide equanimity should be a mod?

Why have you not also made SOTB a mod?
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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #108 on: October 16, 2014, 10:37:25 pm »

To me it looks as though the animosity is coming from a very vocal minority, and in my own biased opinion they don't seem to even know what they are so worked up about. 

As I just said in my last post...

Living. In. Your. Own. Bizzarro. World.

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #109 on: October 16, 2014, 10:40:42 pm »
It is most certainly a majority but I guess it wouldn't seem like that since all the threads have been moved and multiple users banned

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #110 on: October 16, 2014, 10:42:42 pm »
It is most certainly a majority but I guess it wouldn't seem like that since all the threads have been moved and multiple users banned

Great point as well. Or have either left after giving up on what appears to be a complete farce at this point....or still rolling on the floors with laughter trying to compose themselves.

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #111 on: October 16, 2014, 10:45:47 pm »
And you've already demonstrated you completely fail to grasp the concept that flaming someone in B&M indicates nothing about how they act outside of it. I've lost count over the years how many times fine users, mods and  Admins have publically torn someone a new asshole in &T or Zok's B&M.

Consequently, suggesting using 'unnecessary names' in B&M somehow soils my character across the site and userbase is as hilarious as it is meaningless.

If you constantly flame people in B&M, (notice that I didn't say "complain about" or "call someone out") that's not admirable behavior. Does it completely wreck your reputation? Of course not. Does it impact it? Yes it does. Every post you make counts in some small way toward your reputation. Oh, and I mean "people" in a very vague sense, not specifically the site.

Yes, she is very sweet and polite when she's lying through her teeth.

*sigh* She told you that she thought you were acting rather petty and making uselessly snide remarks than represent yourself as someone worthy of respect. She said that thread she cited was a good example. You demanded she cite more threads. And then it looks like she just didn't care anymore. Because it was just an opinion and she thought you were being petty. And actually, you really are blowing this way out of proportion. She stated her opinion of you and you starting making a huge deal out of it as if she had somehow did some sort of massive damage to your character. In fact, you're still making a big deal out of it and now you're saying that she's a liar.

And lets just go back to what I said, shall we? These were our last comments on the subject:

You're complicating the matter immensely. She said you have a tendency to sling insults at some people. You directly implied you didn't, and I told you that you're kinda contradicting yourself.

A tendency she elaborated on with one example. I stand by responses. They were wholly appropriate for this forum.

What does being appropriate for the sub-forum have anything to do with what we're talking about there? In the end, I stand by what I said. She said you have a tendency to sling insults at some some people. You directly implied you didn't, and I told you that you kinda contradicted yourself by calling her a cunt right in that same post. Simple as that.


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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #112 on: October 16, 2014, 10:46:00 pm »
It is most certainly a majority but I guess it wouldn't seem like that since all the threads have been moved and multiple users banned

Great point as well. Or have either left after giving up on what appears to be a complete farce at this point....or still rolling on the floors with laughter trying to compose themselves.

I can speak for many having left due to Arnox's admining and I have seen the new users from zocklet dwindle away as well his head is firmly planted in the sand and his disposition makes him incapable of being wrong it's a shame he dragged so many good users down instead of just listening to them

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #113 on: October 16, 2014, 10:48:09 pm »
If you constantly flame people in B&M, (notice that I didn't say "complain about" or "call someone out") that's not admirable behavior.

this is all I find necessary to point out for the sake of clarity

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #114 on: October 16, 2014, 10:52:42 pm »
this is all I find necessary to point out for the sake of clarity

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That's not what I meant at all. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should.


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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #115 on: October 16, 2014, 10:53:17 pm »
Arnox seems to be trying to propagate particular opinions, which is something site staff should not do. Also merging all staff complaints into a single thread seems to be a form of censorship which is also something the site staff should not do.  He also seems to pick his staff based on his emotions rather than on merit,  which I believe is something he said he would not do.  Isn't this a problem?
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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #116 on: October 16, 2014, 10:53:56 pm »

If people can't handle the bitching forum, then they should stay the fuck out of it. Period.

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #117 on: October 16, 2014, 10:54:14 pm »
God fuckin, damn. Arnox. Just as Spectre said above, you don't even understand the purpose to some of the sections of the website you are supposedly in charge of. And you yourself are trying to besmirch Slave's "character" by erroneously stating it looks badly on him when he IS using B&M for its intended purpose (and a lot more skillfully than most).

No dude, its not Slave's rep that is being tainted by this thread and especially this discussion...its yours, because the more you hold onto this silly ideology of "people shouldn't always flame" in B&M, you are further entrenching yourself as being nothing more than a clueless soft-skinned putz.

By the way...scroll back up to Obbe's most recent post.....you STILL haven't answered his question, and are conveniently skirting those issues.

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #118 on: October 16, 2014, 10:55:18 pm »
this is all I find necessary to point out for the sake of clarity

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That's not what I meant at all. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should.

Arnox I'm actually not even entirely against you in how you judge character but you're being fucking retarded that's the whole fucking point of B&M dude like seriously you fucking don't get that?

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Re: The Official Staff Complaint/Hate Thread
« Reply #119 on: October 16, 2014, 10:58:55 pm »
Arnox I'm actually not even entirely against you in how you judge character but you're being fucking retarded that's the whole fucking point of B&M dude like seriously you fucking don't get that?

So you're saying the whole point of B&M is to flame others?


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