I thought at first about posting this in Bad Ideas, but that didn't seem to quite fit because well, this isn't a bad idea, a bad idea happened to someone. My friend's phone got stolen at a party by my gf's brother. He confessed to doing so to my other friend, but he still hasn't given it back... Is there a way to get it back in the most peaceful way possible? I don't know what to do... The friend who got their phone stolen is my ex gf, and I do not want to show that I care too much about this issue... but she's a good person (just not the person for me) she's going through a lot of shit right now, she just found out her mom has cancer. I don't think the police can do anything about this theft, and I'd rather not go to the police at all about this issue.