Just throwing this out there to all involved, your complaints about Arnox's site administration, and Equanimity's modding might carry more weight if it wasn't all mixed in with accusations of trannyisim, faggotry, and pussieness. Frankly, it makes you look like a bunch of whiny children. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm not inclined to take seriously anyone who seems to be raging for the sake of raging.
Personally, I'm somewhat indifferent to Arnox, though he has my appreciation for creating this site. And I generally like what Equanimity has to say. That said, I did not see the alleged moderation failures that are being discussed, and am not weighing in those except in a meta way.
I swear, I'd ignore site politics entirely if not for my desire to help beat this into a functioning community.