OP, I understand what you're saying, but her goal is probably to raise awareness, and this does do that effectively. Unfortunately most people are largely driven by emotions, and appeals to emotion work in order to get things done.
It is really stupid to go to another state for a pill when an exit bag is a much better and readily available method, but not everyone is aware of this method or has the intelligence or habits that will lead them to finding this information (Fucking google it! "Painless way to commit suicide" "Best way to commit suicide". Not that I care about idiots, but then again, something could cause you to be unable to.) but not everyone is able to go to other state, which is why supporters may argue that it's important to have a right to die wherever you are. Something could also suddenly occur putting you in a state where you'd desire death quickly at the hospital, knowing you wouldn't get better or survive.
Because if you are going to do it, you should pick a surefire way to do it. Go ahead, be lazy, but you'll pay for it. If you're going to fuck over your family and have complete and total disregard for their feelings (particularly your parents), at least pay them back for all the money it cost to raise your disrespectful ass and then do the fucking deed. Nobody should be subjected to your unwillingness to live. I'm not trying to be a moralfag, but for people who actually do have feelings and care about you, it's just human psychology and it's nobody's fault that you don't care about them the same way they care about you. Again, as I said, of course there are exceptions but only in the most extreme of cases.
Oh, fuck you, did someone kill themselves and make you cry?
The selfishness argument is hypocritical, why is it more selfish to end your life and unfortunately possibly hurt the emotions of others, which you have no control over, than it is to expect someone to potentially live the rest of their life in horrendous physical or psychological torment? Why aren't
you the selfish one for expecting them to keep suffering just to spare your feelings? Have you ever thought of that?
And I hope you aren't going to do the "man up"/"get over it" route as an argument, because that's one of the stupidest things you can say to a person that's depressed and signals a complete lack of understanding of clinical depression and the biological roots it can have.
Everyone should read this, his books as well if you're particularly interested in the subject:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=126365907