what does this say about me as a person? Do I generally attract weak minded/vulnerable people?
Seriously, show me one woman that isn't on some quest of..."I need to lose weight, I want a better career, I want to have kids/more kids, I want a better man, I want to redo the living room, etc."....the females that are truly content with their lives on any level at all are few and far between. Literally looking for a needle in a haystack.
This is a true statement. I was talking to my grand father about this not even a month ago. At first it was something that legit needed fixing, they had some type of trees in the yard that grew toward the house which caused the concrete porch to collapse. Okay, sure that needs to be fixed.
So, porch is replaced with a wood one, but then it doesn't quite stop there. My grandma then decides they need a wrap around porch around the entire house, which I would guess is about 3000 square feet, with french doors, I think that was close to about 12k.
Then, the pool deck needs to be replaced, another 4,800. Then, they need a gazebo for the other grand kids who come over and chill , which is like 6 times a year tops. The siding needs replaced too, and I can't even imagine how much that costs, then, he asks me to research what a new cadillac costs, because, you know, a 2009 g6 with 14k miles is a piece of shit obviously.
I literally told the guy " you will be a ghost still trying to fix this place up", and I'm not even joking, it's true. I'm not saying all females are like that, but yes they do exist.