I just finished the chatlog. Not read all the way through just to where he was starting to get graphic. This guy was fucked up but he knew what he was doing. I would be interested to know if the capitalization was subconscious or intentional. It would speak volumes about this man psychologically. Considering his other methods of grooming is obvious this isn't his first rodeo. Its disturbing to see someone take the concept of love and shelter and distort them so twistedly.
I don't understand how abuse gets confused for love... but it seems to happen a lot.
Also I think that the whole side comments in blue are just reading into things too much... I don't think there's much connection, and it would be subconscious, if anything... I don't think people like him as a whole really think THAT much about it.