The Sanctuary
Ego => Bitch & Moan => Topic started by: weedandkimchi on November 29, 2014, 06:28:45 pm
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When in a conversation with someone, there are a few types of things that you can say to the other person or people involved that is interesting to them. There are a lot of things you can say that are not interesting to them and therefore will kill the conversation. For example, good things to talk about would be something interesting that you read or saw on the internet, or a funny story that people can relate to.
For some reason, I continuously find myself in the presence of people who don't grasp this. People share stories from work that aren't relatable to anyone that doesn't work there, because they talk about the intricacies of working there or bitch about a manager or something like that. They don't seem to grasp that there is a difference between sharing a funny story that just happened to have happened at work, and sharing a story that is just bitching about your manager.
Another thing people do when they want to start conversation is relay a story that is not really interesting and attempt to make it interesting by reenacting everyone involved in the story's reactions. Like, "The other day, kevin went to subway and got a sandwich, but they put onions on it and he didn't want onions, so he was like "I SAID NO ONIONS!!! AHHHA!""
These types of things are not only boring for everyone involved, but there is nothing to say in reply to them. They elicit no thought, and it's like the speaker doesn't even think if anyone will find this story interesting before they just spew it out of their mouth.
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A decent joke might be a good start?? Part of the problem is that people have gotten so fucking stupid from sitting on their couch in front of that idiot box that they forget how to communicate with live humans. Then you toss these same brain washed numbskulls in a cubicle and they become more and more like bovine. It is just a very disgusting fact that people are so caught up in their tiny little worlds that they are just clueless about how shit should even work.
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When in a conversation with someone, there are a few types of things that you can say to the other person or people involved that is interesting to them. There are a lot of things you can say that are not interesting to them and therefore will kill the conversation. For example, good things to talk about would be something interesting that you read or saw on the internet, or a funny story that people can relate to.
For some reason, I continuously find myself in the presence of people who don't grasp this. People share stories from work that aren't relatable to anyone that doesn't work there, because they talk about the intricacies of working there or bitch about a manager or something like that. They don't seem to grasp that there is a difference between sharing a funny story that just happened to have happened at work, and sharing a story that is just bitching about your manager.
Another thing people do when they want to start conversation is relay a story that is not really interesting and attempt to make it interesting by reenacting everyone involved in the story's reactions. Like, "The other day, kevin went to subway and got a sandwich, but they put onions on it and he didn't want onions, so he was like "I SAID NO ONIONS!!! AHHHA!""
These types of things are not only boring for everyone involved, but there is nothing to say in reply to them. They elicit no thought, and it's like the speaker doesn't even think if anyone will find this story interesting before they just spew it out of their mouth.
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Hahaha, nice.
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Rowan is the only one here I would have conversation IRL with.
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Nobody gives a shit about having a conversation with you IRL.
Who do you think you are?
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No, you don't care about it, because you've clearly shown yourself as one of the ones who can't hold a conversation for shit. I don't blame you, really, when all your interactions with people end up being impersonations of other peoples reaction to things and bitching about things, it's no wonder you have no interest in having conversation.
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I don't blame you, really,when all your interactions with people end up being impersonations of other peoples reaction to things
How deep up your ass did you have to reach to pull that shit out? I'm not even sure what you're talking about? That I'm a poser or what?
Well....
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I don't blame you, really,when all your interactions with people end up being impersonations of other peoples reaction to things
I'm not even sure what you're talking about?
Haha, my point stands.
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It doesn't.
Now you're just looking like a pretentious asshole. I'm starting to understand why interesting people stay away from you.
Have fun listening to Bill's opinion about supervisors and the size of their dicks. :tup:
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It doesn't.
Now you're just looking like a pretentious asshole. I'm starting to understand why interesting people stay away from you.
Have fun listening to Bill's opinion about supervisors and the size of their dicks. :tup:
Look at this fucking retard Kraut.
"Dur huh, i thinks the best weed comes from da Germany"
How does it feel knowing your country lost two world wars? Not only that you had to suffer the indignity of being ruled by the allies, and raped by Communism. Hahahaha
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Not everyone who converses means to have a fulfilling conversation. People ruin them on purpose almost as much as they fail unintentionally.
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It doesn't.
Now you're just looking like a pretentious asshole. I'm starting to understand why interesting people stay away from you.
Have fun listening to Bill's opinion about supervisors and the size of their dicks. :tup:
Look at this fucking retard Kraut.
"Dur huh, i thinks the best weed comes from da Germany"
How does it feel knowing your country lost two world wars? Not only that you had to suffer the indignity of being ruled by the allies, and raped by Communism. Hahahaha
Hey faggot, you should rather have unsatisfying sex with your girl than following me around.
There's nothing to gain in making me your enemy. Trust me.
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LOL
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It doesn't.
Now you're just looking like a pretentious asshole. I'm starting to understand why interesting people stay away from you.
Have fun listening to Bill's opinion about supervisors and the size of their dicks. :tup:
Look at this fucking retard Kraut.
"Dur huh, i thinks the best weed comes from da Germany"
How does it feel knowing your country lost two world wars? Not only that you had to suffer the indignity of being ruled by the allies, and raped by Communism. Hahahaha
Hey faggot, you should rather have unsatisfying sex with your girl than following me around.
There's nothing to gain in making me your enemy. Trust me.
Heinreich please, what you going to do, invade my country? You have already spent half your night being butt hurt quoting me.
I wank to the thought of your country being pillaged by Ruskies, and your women being raped as their husbands are forced to watch.
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I actually kinda like you. :tup:
You're alright for an angry homosexual with a wide variety of sexual shortcomings.
Just try to not talk to me ok?
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Im a great listener and can really not know what you're talking about because i didnt read a word of your post
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Not everyone who converses means to have a fulfilling conversation. People ruin them on purpose almost as much as they fail unintentionally.
I am pretty sure that not too many people these days are even smart enough to be successful at that. Why would you even bother engaging in a conversation with the intention of ruining it instead of just ignoring it and getting on with better things? Also...how would someone intentionally ruin a conversation?? What do you, lick the person you are talking to or something? Gross.